#1 De-Motivator in Corporate America

Monday, September 21st, 2009 by Martha Forlines & Thad Green
 
Recap of this week’s Leader Quick Tip: “It doesn’t matter” is the #1 de-motivator in corporate America today.

Look around at a few teenagers you know. Some are not polite, not respectful, and not responsible. Some don’t study, don’t get a part-time job, and don’t help around the house. And why? See it from their point of view. They believe “it doesn’t matter.” So why bother?

Many people already in the workplace hold this belief that “it doesn’t matter.”

Can you grasp the far reaching impact of this?

And what about the impact when you are their manager?

“It doesn’t matter” clearly is a serious and pervasive problem in the workforce today. If fact, “it doesn’t matter” is the #1 de-motivator.

“It doesn’t matter” boils down to big trouble. Think about it. This belief that “it doesn’t matter” wraps its arms around many beliefs.pic9-21-sm

“You never get what your performance deserves.”

“Rewards aren’t based on your performance.”

“Poor performers get by with it.”

“High performers always get more work.”

“Seniority and politics count more than performance.”

And so on.

The solution is to create the belief that “it does matter.” That performance does matter.

“It does matter” because positive reinforcement is given, or withheld, to match what performance deserves;

Because “getting by” is not good enough;

Because poor performance is not tolerated;

Because what you say about the importance of performance is backed up with action;

Because you say what you’ll do, and you do what you say;

Because when performance gets off track, you see it quickly, and jump on it immediately;

Because you’re not afraid to confront anybody whose performance is not up to par;

Because you help people get back on course whether they need a word of encouragement or a helping hand;

Because you don’t play favorites; and

Because you hold EVERYBODY accountable.

And how do you as a leader benefit by erasing the belief that “it doesn’t matter?” Even with just a few or only two of those you lead?

This is how to motivate employees. Motivation leads to higher performance. And that’s what you want.

You’ll have less problem performers to deal with as motivation replaces de-motivation and employee job satisfaction increases.

Doing away with “it doesn’t matter” gives you your own employee motivation program, one that is entirely in your hands.

It also is your own personal employee performance management program, with a sound basis for developing performance improvement plans.

You become a more effective leader when you manage in a way that wipes out the damage caused by “it doesn’t matter.”

These benefits are yours for the taking.

“It doesn’t matter’” is an urgent issue because it holds you back as a leader from accomplishing all you have set your sights on.

Now is the time to act. Here is the way to get started.

Bone up on how to identify employees who hold the “it doesn’t matter” belief, and exactly how to tackle it.

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Oh, and one more benefit. Your job becomes easier, less time consuming, and more satisfying when you cure “it doesn’t matter” among those you lead.

And remember, you CAN wipe away “it doesn’t matter” like the rain or the ocean tide makes footprints disappear.

The First Step is the Hardest

Monday, September 7th, 2009 by Martha Forlines & Thad Green
 
Recap of this week’s Leader Quick Tip: Wondering when to give up?

giveup-smDo you ever feel guilty when you start something and not finish it?

How about feeling weak when you’re too chicken to even start something you want or need to do?

Or maybe feeling stupid when you refuse to give up, even when you know you don’t have a snowballs chance in hell of pulling it off?

All you have to do is apply sound decision making skills to the question “Do I quit or keep going?”

You’ll make better decisions. More good stuff will come to you. The bad stuff stays away.

This is particularly true as a leader when it comes to tough issues like employee motivation, employee performance management, and change management training.

The first step is the hardest. That’s committing to make better decisions about “sticking with it” versus “giving up.”

TIP #1: Ignore the little voice camped out in your ear. The words you hear come from all of your unconscious fears. This is not the basis for making sound decisions.

TIP # 2: Notice how tricky your beliefs can be. A belief that serves you well can also work against you. Believing you should “never give up” can lead you to success in on arena, and cause a costly inevitable failure in another. It doesn’t make sense to fight a losing battle to the bloody end just so you can say “I never give up.”

TIP #3: Become consciously aware of your self-talk (the conversations you have with yourself).

Let’s say there’s something you want to do. You start talking to yourself. “I’ve never done this before. I hear it’s really hard. It’d be fun, but . . . Well, I don’t have time anyway.”

Before you can say Kalamazoo and Timbuktu, you’ve talked yourself out of even trying!

Your self-talk could be different. “I’ve never done that before. Sounds like great fun. Everybody says its hard, but I wonder how difficult it really is. Maybe I should check into it enough to see what would be involved. If other people can do it, I probably can too.”

Self-talk can hold you back, or push you ahead. So be conscious of the conversations you have with yourself.

What kind of self-talk do you want to do?

Latch onto these three tips and you’ll make better decisions, be more successful, and happier.

Will you “stick with it” or “give up” when you’re wrestling with challenges like how to motivate employees, overhauling an employee motivation program, bumping up employee job satisfaction, and using performance management tools to get employee performance improvement?

Act now. Time’s a wasting.

Finally, listen up to this metaphor and see how it grabs you.

Two mice fell into a bucket of cream. One gave up and drowned. The other kept paddling around until he churned the cream into butter and walked out of the bucket. *

*From John Frasca, editor, GWT Changed the World for Me, Pyramid Publications, 1972, p. 251.